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5 Reasons Why You Stay

Find out the main reasons why we stay in a relationship,
a job, career, a place or a life style.

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Hi, I’m Christel.
Life Coach. Mentor & Teacher. Writer. Life Designer.
Wife. Mom of 2 sons, 6 dogs and 2 cats. Elephant Aficionada. Coffee Craze.
Narcissist & Manipulation Survivor. Self-Care Advocate.

And I’ve got a few questions for you.

Do you feel stuck?
Do you doubt yourself? Your words, your decisions, your actions, your every move?
Do you feel as if your life´s not your own?
Do you feel ungrateful, guilty, sad, depressed?
Do you feel like you’re walking on egg shells?
Do you feel like you might be going crazy?
Are you exhausted from being constantly on the go?
From always being there for others and neglecting your own needs?

Maybe you’re in a toxic relationship.
Maybe you’re being manipulated.
Maybe you’re in an emotional or psychologically abusive relationship.
Maybe you’re even dealing with a straight out narcissist.
And maybe you don’t even know it, though you feel something’s just not right.
Maybe you’ve already come to see this is not good for you and now you’re facing a tough decision.
Maybe you already made the decision and left, but chaos, confusion and pain are a constant in your life.

Can you feel it?
Then read on, as I’ve got something to share
with you.

When your whole life is up in the air, you feel confused, scared, trapped, lost.
When you’re being played and manipulated, you doubt yourself.
Hell, you’ll even think you’re going crazy.

You want to throw in the towel. Give up your chance for a better life.
Because you feel hopeless. With no way out.
Well, in my book giving up on yourself is not an option.

And that’s why I’m here! To tell you that you’re not the only one.
To tell you, you don’t have to go through this alone.

I’ve done an intense coaching training and am a Martha Beck Certified Life Coach.
What’s more, I’ve been where you are. I’ve felt what you feel.
I once was confused, scared, trapped and totally lost.
I doubted myself and thought I was the crazy one. The bad one.
The one responsible for all the shit that was going on.
I was ready to give in and give up.

I experienced all these conflicting emotions.
I experienced first hand what it was like to be constantly played, manipulated.
I know what it’s like to feel drained and exhausted. Preferring to stay in bed to not have to face
another day of more of the same.
I’m deeply familiar with the turmoil that facing a decision to stay or go brings with it.

The good news!

I have the tools to help you get through this.
I help you see through the manipulation tactics meant to hold you back from making a decision.
I help you deal with the rollercoaster ride when you decide enough is enough.
I help you overcome obstacles, fears and resistance that you’ll encounter in the process.
I teach you the importance of taking good care of yourself, so you can deal with anything that comes your way.

I help you start over so you can create a new and better life for yourself.
A life where you’re allowed to be you. Where you take good care of yourself.
Where you’re allowed to follow your own dreams and passions. Where you have more joy, fun.
Where the real you is allowed to shine bright.

“No matter how hard the past, you can always begin again.”Buddha

Are you ready to take the reins of your life in your own hands?
Because no one else can and will do it for you.
Don’t worry. I’m here to help you.
You can do this!

Want to know more? Let’s chat. It’s FREE!

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  • I’m a Martha Beck Certified Life Coach. Mentor. Writer. Life Designer. Self-Care Advocate.
    I’m passionate about helping women believe in themselves, in their worth. I help them be who they really are and not who the world wants them to be. I teach them the importance of self-care so they learn to value themselves.
    I’m invested in helping women who’re dealing with manipulative and/or emotionally abusive
  • relationships and narcissists to trust their inner wisdom so they can break through self-doubt, indecision and fear paralysis.
    I help them make choices for their own wellbeing so they can start over. I help guide them through the transition into creating a new life.
    I was born and raised in Antwerp, Belgium, but have lived in Algarve, Portugal for the last 27 years.
    I’m fluent in English, Dutch and Portuguese.